Own Your Power:

End the self-sacrificing cycle & create a life in which you & your needs matter as much as anybody else

You find it so hard to say no, even though saying yes is often at your own expense...
 
You constantly feel drained and exhausted, but putting your own needs first or saying no to someone who is struggling — no matter the cost to you — leaves you with incredible feelings of guilt.

Most of the time you just say yes, even if it isn’t good for you or what you really want. You're usually giving way more than you're getting.

It's making you unhappy, and causing you to resent the people in your life who you are giving your time, care and energy to but who don't seem to care about you or your needs in return


You just feel like you don't really matter and nobody really cares for you — not like you care for other people.

But, despite your best efforts toward change, you keep on doing the same things and behaving in the same ways- sacrificing yourself and your own needs to take care of other people- hoping that someday it will finally be different.

Even if you wanted to say no or to prioritize your needs and wellbeing it feels like you can’t or that you might not survive if you did.

Imagine what it would feel like to break this cycle: 

You wake up happy and excited to get out of bed in the morning knowing that you and your life truly matters.

You never say yes to anything unless it also benefits your own life in some way... and you don't even feel guilty about it!


Life just keeps getting better and easier for you. There are people in your life that genuinely care for you, support you and would gladly be there for you if you ever need it.

You feel good, happy, and excited about the things you are doing with your life. You feel confident in yourself and whether or not people truly care isn’t really a question in your mind. You’re too busy enjoying being you to think about it.

It's no longer hard to say no or to put yourself first. In fact, it even feels fun for you. Now, you can do it quite easily and gracefully and without any sense of guilt.

You enjoy giving to and contributing to other people, feel genuinely appreciated and valued for what you contribute and experience relationships of mutual respect, value and care. 


Are you ready to truly change your life?  

As a result of this package you will:  

  • Identify the root causes of your self-sacrificing patterns and behaviors and shift them at their core.
     
  • Have the necessary understanding and tools to let go of your old self-sacrificing patterns and to show up to your life and relationships in new and self-empowered ways. 
     
  •  Start creating a life for yourself in which you and your needs matter as much as anybody else- and not feel guilty when you do!

Step 1:

Get Honest With Yourself

Identifying your most troubling and problematic self-sacrificing dynamics and behaviors and your perceived obstacles to overcoming them is one of the first steps to creating real and lasting change. Before our live call you will fill out a detailed questionnaire to help you gain clarity about these dynamics and behaviors that I will be able to review before having our coaching call. This will help me focus our time together on the most important patterns and issues to change so that you can see real and lasting results. 

Step 2:

Reclaim Your Power

In this dynamic 90-minute coaching call, we’ll uncover the subconscious reasons why you give up on yourself and your own needs and transform the subconscious patterns that drive your behavior, so they no longer run your life. We’ll then identify clear, concrete strategies and skills to stop the self-sacrificing cycles and care for you and your needs as much as anyone else's. Your homework will be to use the strategies and skills we've identified and apply them over the next  week.

Step 3:

 Create an Empowered life

Once you've had a chance to use the tools we identified and apply them to your life in tangible ways, we’ll discuss the strategies you have used, assess your progress, wins and challenges, and create a plan with all the tools, strategies and support you need going forward to truly break the cycle and be free. We’ll do this in a follow-up call one to two weeks after our initial conversation, ensuring that you are getting maximum value and benefit from our work together and that you know what to to experience continued and lasting success. 

Let's Get Started!  

I know first hand how draining, exhausting and frustrating perpetual over-extending and self-sacrificing can be!  But I also know how amazing it is when you are able to release and transform the old patterns and behaviors and truly consider yourself and your own needs as much as you do anybody else. If you learn this, it will totally change your life. 

  1. 1
    Click the link below. It will take you to the registration page.
  2. 2
    Make your one-time payment of $249.
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    You'll then book your live call time and will be sent additional detailed instructions about what you need to do before we talk.

What Clients Say About Working with Elana: 

BRYN~ LA

"When I met Elana, all I could think was, 'why would someone care' I have way too many things going on, nothing can help' but in less than two hours the core of my life changed... I got more out of that 1 1/2 hours with her than 5 years of individual therapy! "

RUTHANNE~ UT

"This work has basically saved my life. For the first time, my world makes sense! Thank you for sharing such wonderful and helpful information to use so that we can FINALLY find happiness."

MICHELLE~ WI

"If you haven't set up your call with Elana I HIGHLY recommend it! I have spent my entire life as a people-pleaser and care-giver.... I was anxious and depressed all the time... It was a vicious cycle... Elana has helped me make some HUGE changes in my life and I cannot thank her enough!"

ANJALI~ VT

"I continue to be blown away by Elana’s ability... Our sessions are fun, joyful and uplifting and I always walk away feeling cleansed, cleared and EMPOWERED and ready to take new, life-affirming and positive actions in my life."

JENNY~ NY

"One session really moved forward my progress in therapy and just the way I'm thinking about personal transformation. The days after we met I felt so light and genuinely happy and almost wanted to quit therapy and just work with you..."

LISA~ WV

"Wow, did I learn a lot! She really helped me gain confidence and learn that it's ok to say no without explaining yourself. She gave me some tools to use in everyday life and helped me find my self worth".

About Elana

Elana (rhymes with Nirvana) Davidson  is the best-selling author of the book “Finding Your Own Happy: The Soul Searchers Guide to Peace and Happiness in Everyday Life, a certified Transformational Kinesiologist, and an Emotional Health and Happiness coach.

She specializes in helping empathic and sensitive folks put an end to emotional exhaustion, drain and overwhelm, heal their past pain and trauma and reclaim their confidence so that they can experience true peace and happiness and navigate through the world with ease.

Elana's professional training spans decades of study and exploration in fields of consciousness, psychology, personal development and energy healing and, along with her natural empathic and intuitive abilities, inform her work with clients. When not travelling the world sharing her message and her healing gifts, Elana lives in the beautiful town of Moab Utah.

What Are You Waiting For?
OWN YOUR POWER! 

End the self-sacrificing cycle & create a life in which you & your needs matter as much as anybody else